Losing People

It is life. You are going to lose people; relationships and friendships. You are also going to grow apart from people and you just have to accept it. There is no way around this problem. It happens when your 15 and it happens when you are 80. You are going to miss them when something good happens and you want to tell them, when something is troubling you, when you laugh and cry. Understand when someone is not positively affecting your life let them go! I can not say that enough. Do not let them hinder your growth. You do not need to forget everything you just have to move on and accept they where in your past but can not be in your present or future. Sometimes we might never get over a person but I promise new things will come in your life and make it fade into the background. Just appreciate the people that are still here and in your life and look forward to the new relationships and friendships you will have in the future. And even if you have accepted that fact we all including me want to hang on to it even though we know we are better off letting go. It is like we are scared to lose something that we do not really have. Most of us say that we would rather have that then nothing at all, but the truth is; to have it half way is harder than not having it at all. I know it sucks to hear that but it is the truth. We all go through this at least once in our lives if not a few times and it is OKAY to be sad and hurt but you can not let that define you. You have to get up and continue life is not going to stop for you and you do not want to miss out on events and nights of being happy. Like my Mom always said “You have to fake it until you make it!” and that is nothing short of the truth.

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