It will not be what you imagined. Maybe you get that road trip to the beach with coffee in your hand and the radio playing, maybe you did not. But happiness shows up. It is in a 2 am of jenga with your new friends. It is curling up for another Netflix marathon. It is meeting the person who will be your maid of honor at your wedding one day. It is the mornings they have omelets and good books and a puddle that looks cool. It is sometimes picturesque, but more often it is full- belly laughter at those stupid things on the floor of your friends house while in the background someone is debating the best way to win settlers of catan.