Please, do not text me. Do not text me behind your new girlfriend’s back, like you used to do to me with all your “friends.” Learn from what you did to me. Stop taking the easy way out. Do not text me “how are you doing?” when you know I am great. Do not text me asking superficial questions, trying to get a feel for if I miss you, because I do not. Do not text me asking what I have been up to, because my answer will not involve anything we used to do. Those days are behind me, where they should be. Please, spare yourself time. Do not ruin my day. At one point I really loved you. In fact, I still do. Sadly, you never returned that love to me and I have come to terms with that. I do not have any grudges against you, or place blame on you anymore. I have accepted you as a learning lesson. The universe had a much bigger plan for me, and because we did not work out my life fell into place the way it was meant to, and I am thankful for that. The next time you feel the urge to text me, asking me how I am doing, please do not. Stop, take a minute, and think about what you are doing. If you ever had an ounce of love for me, then think about it. If you ever loved me at any point then my happiness should matter, and when you text me, you ruin that. Text your current girlfriend, and ask her how her day is going, just please, do not text me.