The secret isn’t to find someone you love spending time with- I love spending time with a lot of people. The secret isn’t to find someone that you find attractive- I find a lot of people attractive for many different reasons. The secret isn’t to find someone who is nice- there are tons of nice people in the world. THe secret is to find someone who wants exactly what you want. Someone who is ready to give you all they’ve got, and in turn be ready to accept all the love you have to give. The world is filled with people in relationship of “loves you more” and “I have to act mean so they will like me back” or “I am just not ready.” Please do not waste any more of your precious time. You are an amazing creature. You deserve to be loved until your insides melt. Don’t give up on all the things you want. When you meet the right person you will have zero doubt in your mind. Zero.