Maybe we are Better off as Friends

Maybe we are better off as friends, when I thought about it, you cannot really be my lover. Friends like to play it safe and I do not want someone who plays it safe with it comes to love, when it comes to me I want someone who is willing to take a risk and take a chance without being so hesitant. Friends do not like to cross certain boundaries or talk about certain things and I want someone who crosses an ocean for me and with me and I want to talk about everything without paying attention to what I am saying. I want to talk about everything I am not supposed to talk about.  Friends are afraid of doing anything that might give a wrong impression and I want someone who is free to do whatever he wants, free to say whatever he wants, someone who is not guarded or cautious with me. Friends are not okay with too much depth, too much intimacy or too much of everything for just a friend. Because friendship is a beautiful thing but not as beautiful as love. Friendship is comforting but love is healing. Friendship will give meaning to your life but love will change your life. Because love is not for the weak, not for the faint-hearted, not for the ones who say one thing and do another and love is not for those who are content with friendship when they could have more. Love is for the strong, for the fearless, for the ones who are not afraid to try, not afraid to feel, not afraid to hurt and not afraid to get out of the friend zone and enter the realm of love. And I want someone who is not afraid to take that leap, I want someone who knows it is safe to be my friend but it is dangerous to lose me as a lover. I want someone who is not afraid of danger.And I have some to realize that this is not who you are, so maybe you were right after all, we are better off as friends.

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