Don’t be so hard on yourself. Think of it this way: ever wonder why it’s so easy to offer advice but when you’re in a difficult situation, the answers aren’t as clear? Thats because when someone else comes to you with a problem, they are in a maze and lost, while you have a birds eye view from above and can easily see where they need to go to get out of the maze. However, when you’re in the maze (your problem), all you see are barriers and need an outside perspective to help you turn the right way. Keep in mind, they can only tell you which way to go, but not force your legs into walking that direction. Whether to walk that way or not is entirely in your decision.